Party Pooper OR Party Pupper?
- chinartekchandani
- Sep 16
- 5 min read
Updated: Oct 14
Before I start writing this blog, what do you all think about the title? It's quite funny, right? Hahaha, I can be funny when I want to be. Now all of you might be wondering why I would write about this topic but whether or not we realize it, social gatherings are a common phenomenon and there are families with dogs who sometimes struggle. And sometimes, because they don't know what options they have, the dogs also end up being stressed. How I know this.. It's because I have some friends who deal with this by locking their dogs up in different rooms and the dogs.. well, they end up destroying the room or keep barking.
This can be unpleasant for the dogs, hosts and the guests. And that's why preparing your dog beforehand can make the experience smoother for both of you.
Whether it’s a birthday celebration, a festive gathering during Diwali, or just a weekend house party, here’s how to get your dog ready so they feel safe, calm during house parties and maybe even enjoy being the star of the show. So if you ever have questions like, this blog is for you- How do I keep my dog calm during a house party? Should I keep my dog in a separate room during parties? How can I prepare my dog before guests arrive? What are the signs my dog is stressed during a party?
1. Know Your Dog’s Personality First
Not every dog is a social butterfly. Some thrive in the chaos, happily wagging and greeting everyone; others might prefer a quiet corner. My dog Misty, she will want to be a part of every party but the rules for her are clear, she will sit where everyone is sitting. She would prefer that no one touches her and she would like to have her designated spot.
But that's not the case with my other dog. Her name is Pepper. Pepper would want to go and sniff everyone. She would eat out of people's hand (something I strongly discourage) and would want to be the center of the attention. Both my dogs won't do well if I lock them up in another room.
But apart from this, there are some other traits that would be important in a part scenario.
My dogs are not very comfortable around kids at first. They take time to warm up. Depends on the kids also.
Pepper is a major foodie, she would eat anything even if it costs her her health. She may even try and steal the food.
Pepper will try to bite a running kid.
Misty will need a mat to sit on.
Now why are these traits important? They are important because my guests need to be warned as well. If someone has a kid, we would have to first introduce the kid to the dogs so that they warm up because if the party gets wild, and the kid is uncomfortable, the presence of the dog might not be the best in this scenario. I would have to also inform them to not touch Misty unless Misty goes close to them. Misty won't bite that I know but Misty is a shy dog and she won't like it at all and become uncomfortable for the rest of the party.
So step 1 for you is to KNOW YOUR DOG'S PERSONALITY and prepare your guests accordingly (if your dog is going to be around).
2. Exercise Before the Guests Arrive
A tired dog is a calm dog. Take your pet for a long walk, a quick run, or an intense play session before people arrive. This helps burn off extra energy so they’re less likely to jump, bark, or demand attention later.
A 30-minute fetch game in the park can make your dog more relaxed when guests walk in. This tip is important for people who have young and jumpy dogs. Old dogs may have a different way of dealing with stress and guests and exercising them may not be the best idea. So, if you know their personality, you would know whether or not you need to exercise them.
3. Set Up a Safe Zone
Parties can get noisy... clinking glasses, laughter, music. Your dog needs a safe retreat. Most dogs, even the ones who love parties are not going to like loud music or sounds. They are just too sensitive to it. So, after a point of time, it might be a better idea for you to make a safe space for them where they can go and rest in case they get bothered by the activities. My dog Pepper likes to go in and out when the sounds get louder. Misty prefers to be at her own spot inside the room after a couple of hours.
What all should a safe zone have -
Prepare a quiet room with their bed, water bowl, and a chew toy.
Play calming music or use a white noise machine.
Let guests know not to disturb your dog in this space.
During Diwali gatherings, many pet parents in India prepare a spare bedroom with curtains drawn to buffer out noise and light.
4. Train “Polite Greetings”
Dogs love jumping on guests, but not everyone enjoys it. Practice basic commands like sit, stay, and down before the big day.
Keep treats by the door so your dog associates visitors with positive rewards.
For excitable pups, leash them when the first few guests arrive.
5. Be Mindful of Food and Drinks
Human party food is often dangerous for dogs — chocolates, alcohol, spicy snacks, and bones can cause serious harm.
Inform guests not to feed your pet without permission. And be stern about it. One of my friends once fed Kurkure to Pepper and she happily ate it. She then had diarrhoea for 2 days!
Place food trays out of reach.
Offer dog-safe treats (like carrot sticks or store-bought chews) so your dog doesn’t feel left out.
6. Socialize in Small Doses
If your dog isn’t used to crowds, introduce them gradually.
Start with smaller gatherings before big events.
Allow them to meet guests one at a time.
Watch their body language: yawning, lip licking, or tucked tails may signal stress.
7. Use Calming Aids if Needed
For anxious dogs, natural calming aids can help:
Herbal sprays with lavender or chamomile.
Vet-recommended anxiety vests.
In some cases, calming supplements (consult your vet).
8. Plan for Breaks and Bathroom Needs
Don’t let the party distract you from your dog’s routine. Ensure they get bathroom breaks, water refills, and short check-ins with you.
Preparing your dog for a party isn’t about making them perform — it’s about ensuring they feel secure and respected. Some dogs love the bustle and may become the life of the party; others will be happier away from the noise. Both are okay. Remember: your dog’s comfort should always come before entertainment. With thoughtful preparation, you’ll create a safe, enjoyable environment for both your guests and your dog.
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